Making Space for Fresh Starts (and Real Feelings)
- 3 days ago
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As parents, we’ve all had those moments. It’s a regular day, everything seems fine, and then—out of nowhere—you hear a cry.
You rush over, heart racing, only to find your little one at the table, clutching a broken crayon and a coloring page. The tears are flowing, and you’re standing there, caught between relief that they’re okay… and wondering if the crayon really caused this emotional avalanche.
Even if this exact scene hasn’t played out in your home, chances are you’ve witnessed a meltdown over something that felt… well, not that serious.
And yet, as parents, we show up. We offer hugs, choices, solutions—whatever it takes to help them feel seen and soothed.
When We Forget to Give Ourselves the Same Grace
The truth is—we’re grown now, but we still have those moments too. Something doesn’t go as planned, and suddenly, the tears come. And what do we do? We apologize. We hide our faces. We fan our eyes like that’ll magically stop the crying. But why? Why do we give our children space to feel… but not ourselves?
A Reminder From Our Own Journey
During our journey preparing to open EPC, there were plenty of moments like this. One that stands out was during our photoshoot prep. We were installing fixtures, cleaning, and getting everything just right. If you’ve visited EPC, you might’ve noticed the golden yellow baffles hanging from the ceiling (they help with sound). We loved them from the start—but hanging them? Not so easy.
The handyman arrived, ready to install them, only to discover the company had sent the wrong hinges. Our photoshoot was just days away, and we didn’t know if the right parts would arrive in time.
I was at work when I got Maria’s voicemail. She was crying. And what broke my heart most wasn’t the baffles—it was her saying she felt silly for crying over them.
Feelings Are Never “Too Much”
But here’s the thing: feelings are never silly.
We’re allowed to feel overwhelmed, frustrated, disappointed.
We don’t apologize when we laugh and have a good time—so why do we feel the need to say sorry when we cry?
April Reminder: You Get to Begin Again, Too
Spring has a way of reminding us that we’re allowed to start fresh.
This month isn’t just about new blooms and longer days—it’s about making space for ourselves, too.
Let this be your reminder: you don’t have to hold it all together all the time.
A Space for You, Too
As we built EPC, one thing we knew for sure: we wanted it to be a space where parents and guardians feel supported.
A place where you can walk in, exhale, and let go of whatever you’re carrying—without judgment.
Because emotions are part of being human.
And every tear, just like every laugh, deserves room to be felt.
Stay grounded & grateful,
Mavia










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